Friday, September 10, 2010
 
Becoming a Grandparent
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Understand Your Grandchild Print  
Grandchildren develop so fast it’s hard to keep pace. Your challenge: to understand them—and accept them—as they grow.

You’ve probably forgotten how quickly kids change. But now that you’re a grandparent, getting reacquainted with these changes will be a big help.
Child Development
Grandparents find it easy and fun to mark the happy milestones in a grandchild's life. A baby's first words are big news in any family. A child's first step is a great reason for a party! But how do grandparents greet the other, not-so-happy, milestones?

How will you react, for example, when your loveable toddler suddenly greets you with frightened tears instead of a warm hug? You probably won't jump for joy! You won't want to throw a party to celebrate your granddaughter's first temper tantrum. You may want to lose your own temper when your preteen granddaughter spends an entire visit attached to her headphones.

Don't let these behaviors worry you or make you feel bad about yourself. All of them-the tears, the tantrums, and the headphones-are normal for grandchildren at certain ages. It's called "growing up," and it's not always pretty. Knowing what to expect will make it easier for you to accompany grandchildren on their journey through life, while keeping your self-esteem intact.

 

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Grandchildren develop so fast it’s hard to keep pace. Your challenge: to understand them—and accept them—as they grow.

You’ve probably forgotten how quickly kids change. But now that you’re a grandparent, getting reacquainted with these changes will be a big help.
Child Development
Grandparents find it easy and fun to mark the happy milestones in a grandchild's life. A baby's first words are big news in any family. A child's first step is a great reason for a party! But how do grandparents greet the other, not-so-happy, milestones?

How will you react, for example, when your loveable toddler suddenly greets you with frightened tears instead of a warm hug? You probably won't jump for joy! You won't want to throw a party to celebrate your granddaughter's first temper tantrum. You may want to lose your own temper when your preteen granddaughter spends an entire visit attached to her headphones.

Don't let these behaviors worry you or make you feel bad about yourself. All of them-the tears, the tantrums, and the headphones-are normal for grandchildren at certain ages. It's called "growing up," and it's not always pretty. Knowing what to expect will make it easier for you to accompany grandchildren on their journey through life, while keeping your self-esteem intact.

 

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More about understanding your grandchildren.

Learn more about developmental stages.

Download state fact sheets for assistance rasining your grandchlid.

Understanding your Grandchild

Knowing what to expect will make it easier for you to accompany grandchildren on their journey through life, while keeping your self-esteem intact.

Learn more...

 


Source:  AARP

 

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Understanding your Grandchild

Knowing what to expect will make it easier for you to accompany grandchildren on their journey through life, while keeping your self-esteem intact.

Learn more...

 


Source:  AARP

 

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Learn More About Developmental Stages

Find important information on physical, mental and emotional growth and development in children and teenagers. This information can help grandparents know what to expect from their grandchildren as they mature. Help your grandchildren and adolescents reach their full potential as they grow and develop.


Learn more...

 


Source:  Child Development Institute, LLC

 

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Learn More About Developmental Stages

Find important information on physical, mental and emotional growth and development in children and teenagers. This information can help grandparents know what to expect from their grandchildren as they mature. Help your grandchildren and adolescents reach their full potential as they grow and develop.


Learn more...

 


Source:  Child Development Institute, LLC

 

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Find State Fact Sheets on Grandparenting

More than six million children - approximately 1 in 12 - are living in households headed by grandparents (4.5 million children) or other relatives (1.5 million children). In many of these homes, grandparents (approximately 2.4 million) and other relatives are taking on primary responsibility for the children’s needs.

These grandparent and other relative caregivers often lack information about the range of support services, benefits and policies they need to fulfill their caregiving role. In an effort to remedy this situation, a group of national organizations working on behalf of children and/or seniors has prepared State Fact Sheets for Grandparents and Other Relatives Raising Children, which provide helpful state-specific data and information for each of the states, Washington, D.C., Puerto Rico, and the U.S. Virgin Islands.

Find a comprehensive list of local programs, resources and services as well as state laws you should be aware of.


Learn more...

 


Source:  The Grandparent Foundation

 

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Find State Fact Sheets on Grandparenting

More than six million children - approximately 1 in 12 - are living in households headed by grandparents (4.5 million children) or other relatives (1.5 million children). In many of these homes, grandparents (approximately 2.4 million) and other relatives are taking on primary responsibility for the children’s needs.

These grandparent and other relative caregivers often lack information about the range of support services, benefits and policies they need to fulfill their caregiving role. In an effort to remedy this situation, a group of national organizations working on behalf of children and/or seniors has prepared State Fact Sheets for Grandparents and Other Relatives Raising Children, which provide helpful state-specific data and information for each of the states, Washington, D.C., Puerto Rico, and the U.S. Virgin Islands.

Find a comprehensive list of local programs, resources and services as well as state laws you should be aware of.


Learn more...

 


Source:  The Grandparent Foundation

 

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Congratulations! You’re a grandparent or soon to become one. Although this transition is less challenging than becoming a parent, it does have its challenges—and joys. The checklist below will help you make the most of your grand-parenting years.

 Adjust to your new role.

 Understand your grandchild.

 Childproof your home.

 Safety in the car.

 Help your grandchild stay healthy.

 Provide childcare.

 Help raise your grandchild.

 Provide discipline.

 Give financial gifts.

 Give non-financial gifts.

 Leave a legacy.

 Help with college savings.


 
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