Tuesday, September 07, 2010
 
Becoming a Grandparent
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If your child is unable to care for your grandchild, you may need to take over. Don’t worry . . . you’re not alone.

Raising a grandchild is the ultimate act of self-sacrifice. Say goodbye to retirement dreams of travel and leisure. But say hello to the rewards of love and commitment.

Finding Help to Raise a Grandchild

Are you a grandparent raising a grandchild? More than 2.4 million grandparents are doing the same thing you are. They stepped in at a moment's notice when their families needed help. They put their own plans on hold. They decided to take care of their grandchildren when the parents of those children could not.

These grandparents are probably a lot like you. The majority are younger than 60. Many feel all alone. And most don't know where to get the help they need. There are so many issues to think about when you begin to raise a grandchild.

This overview will help you find some tips on how to best address these issues and learn who can help.

 

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If your child is unable to care for your grandchild, you may need to take over. Don’t worry . . . you’re not alone.

Raising a grandchild is the ultimate act of self-sacrifice. Say goodbye to retirement dreams of travel and leisure. But say hello to the rewards of love and commitment.

Finding Help to Raise a Grandchild

Are you a grandparent raising a grandchild? More than 2.4 million grandparents are doing the same thing you are. They stepped in at a moment's notice when their families needed help. They put their own plans on hold. They decided to take care of their grandchildren when the parents of those children could not.

These grandparents are probably a lot like you. The majority are younger than 60. Many feel all alone. And most don't know where to get the help they need. There are so many issues to think about when you begin to raise a grandchild.

This overview will help you find some tips on how to best address these issues and learn who can help.

 

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Find help raising your grandchild.

See if you're eligible for public benefits.

Finding Help Raising a Grandchild

There are many issues to think about when you begin to raise a grandchild.  Some of the items you need to consider are legal status, housing, finances, education and healthcare. Get tips on how to best address these issues and where to get additional help. 

Learn more...

 


Source:  AARP

 

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Finding Help Raising a Grandchild

There are many issues to think about when you begin to raise a grandchild.  Some of the items you need to consider are legal status, housing, finances, education and healthcare. Get tips on how to best address these issues and where to get additional help. 

Learn more...

 


Source:  AARP

 

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The products and services listed on this page are presented as a service to you. Neither L-3 nor Marsh recommends any product or service; there is no guarantee that any listing on this page will be suitable for a particular purpose.

See If Your Eligible For Public Benefits

This resource will help you find the state, federal, and private programs for which you are eligible.


Learn more...

 


Source:  AARP

 

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The products and services listed on this page are presented as a service to you. Neither L-3 nor Marsh recommends any product or service; there is no guarantee that any listing on this page will be suitable for a particular purpose.

See If Your Eligible For Public Benefits

This resource will help you find the state, federal, and private programs for which you are eligible.


Learn more...

 


Source:  AARP

 

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The products and services listed on this page are presented as a service to you. Neither L-3 nor Marsh recommends any product or service; there is no guarantee that any listing on this page will be suitable for a particular purpose.

  
 Learn More  
Want more information? Check out the following:
Deal with housing issues.

Deal with legal issues.

Learn more about grandparenting.

Learn about child emotions.

Learn how to discipline your grandchild.

Look into child tax credits.

Deal With Housing Issues

"There was an old woman who lived in a shoe. She had so many children she didn't know what to do." We've all heard this famous nursery rhyme. We can even picture that old woman in our mind's eye. She's standing outside a two-story house that is shaped like a shoe. Children are leaning out of every window. They look happy. She looks worried.

Grandparents raising grandchildren can relate to the woman's concerns. On some days, their homes feel like a shoe that's a few sizes too small. Those homes may have been quite cozy before the grandchildren moved in. Now they are crowded and inadequate.

More grandparents are raising grandchildren than ever before. As a result, their housing problems are starting to get noticed. Groups around the country are now working to make things better. Some have been successful. Read about these success stories and more!


Learn more...

 


Source:  AARP

 

Note
The products and services listed on this page are presented as a service to you. Neither L-3 nor Marsh recommends any product or service; there is no guarantee that any listing on this page will be suitable for a particular purpose.

Deal With Housing Issues

"There was an old woman who lived in a shoe. She had so many children she didn't know what to do." We've all heard this famous nursery rhyme. We can even picture that old woman in our mind's eye. She's standing outside a two-story house that is shaped like a shoe. Children are leaning out of every window. They look happy. She looks worried.

Grandparents raising grandchildren can relate to the woman's concerns. On some days, their homes feel like a shoe that's a few sizes too small. Those homes may have been quite cozy before the grandchildren moved in. Now they are crowded and inadequate.

More grandparents are raising grandchildren than ever before. As a result, their housing problems are starting to get noticed. Groups around the country are now working to make things better. Some have been successful. Read about these success stories and more!


Learn more...

 


Source:  AARP

 

Note
The products and services listed on this page are presented as a service to you. Neither L-3 nor Marsh recommends any product or service; there is no guarantee that any listing on this page will be suitable for a particular purpose.

Deal With Legal Issues

Does your grandchild live with you? Chances are it started out as an informal arrangement. You probably thought the child would stay for a short time. In the eyes of the law, the parent was still in charge. You had no legal rights or legal relationship to your grandchild. You could not make decisions for the child. You were an "informal" caregiver.

After a while, some grandparent caregivers find that it's hard to raise their grandchildren without some legal rights or a formal legal relationship. These grandparents may have trouble enrolling their grandchildren in school. They may not be able to give a doctor permission to treat their grandchild. They worry that an unfit parent may come back and take the child away. And often they have trouble getting financial help to raise the child. To get more rights, these grandparents may ask the court to help. They may ask to change their legal relationship to the grandchildren they are raising by getting legal custody or guardianship, or they may ask to adopt their grandchildren. Other grandparents may not take those steps, but they may find other legal options that will help.

Changing your legal relationship is a big decision. Before you make any decisions, be sure to learn about all the legal options your state gives you. You may be surprised at how many options you have.


Learn more...

 


Source:  AARP

 

Note
The products and services listed on this page are presented as a service to you. Neither L-3 nor Marsh recommends any product or service; there is no guarantee that any listing on this page will be suitable for a particular purpose.

Deal With Legal Issues

Does your grandchild live with you? Chances are it started out as an informal arrangement. You probably thought the child would stay for a short time. In the eyes of the law, the parent was still in charge. You had no legal rights or legal relationship to your grandchild. You could not make decisions for the child. You were an "informal" caregiver.

After a while, some grandparent caregivers find that it's hard to raise their grandchildren without some legal rights or a formal legal relationship. These grandparents may have trouble enrolling their grandchildren in school. They may not be able to give a doctor permission to treat their grandchild. They worry that an unfit parent may come back and take the child away. And often they have trouble getting financial help to raise the child. To get more rights, these grandparents may ask the court to help. They may ask to change their legal relationship to the grandchildren they are raising by getting legal custody or guardianship, or they may ask to adopt their grandchildren. Other grandparents may not take those steps, but they may find other legal options that will help.

Changing your legal relationship is a big decision. Before you make any decisions, be sure to learn about all the legal options your state gives you. You may be surprised at how many options you have.


Learn more...

 


Source:  AARP

 

Note
The products and services listed on this page are presented as a service to you. Neither L-3 nor Marsh recommends any product or service; there is no guarantee that any listing on this page will be suitable for a particular purpose.

Learn More About Grandparenting

You are not along! Are you raising your grandchild? If so, you are not alone. There are 2.4 million other grandparents in the U.S. who are responsible for the grandchildren living in their homes. As a grandparent caregiver, you may be facing new challenges. Use this guide to learn more about grandparenting.


Learn more...

 


Source:  AARP

 

Note
The products and services listed on this page are presented as a service to you. Neither L-3 nor Marsh recommends any product or service; there is no guarantee that any listing on this page will be suitable for a particular purpose.

Learn More About Grandparenting

You are not along! Are you raising your grandchild? If so, you are not alone. There are 2.4 million other grandparents in the U.S. who are responsible for the grandchildren living in their homes. As a grandparent caregiver, you may be facing new challenges. Use this guide to learn more about grandparenting.


Learn more...

 


Source:  AARP

 

Note
The products and services listed on this page are presented as a service to you. Neither L-3 nor Marsh recommends any product or service; there is no guarantee that any listing on this page will be suitable for a particular purpose.

Learn About Child Emotions

Is it just a phase or a serious problem? Help your grandchild cope with life's ups and downs, from dealing with divorce to preparing for new siblings. Or find out how to understand your grandchild's behavior, whether it's toddler tantrums or teenage depression.


Learn more...

 


Source:  Nemours Foundations, Kidshealth.org

 

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The products and services listed on this page are presented as a service to you. Neither L-3 nor Marsh recommends any product or service; there is no guarantee that any listing on this page will be suitable for a particular purpose.

Learn About Child Emotions

Is it just a phase or a serious problem? Help your grandchild cope with life's ups and downs, from dealing with divorce to preparing for new siblings. Or find out how to understand your grandchild's behavior, whether it's toddler tantrums or teenage depression.


Learn more...

 


Source:  Nemours Foundations, Kidshealth.org

 

Note
The products and services listed on this page are presented as a service to you. Neither L-3 nor Marsh recommends any product or service; there is no guarantee that any listing on this page will be suitable for a particular purpose.

Learn How to Discipline Your Child

As a grandparent, it is your job to teach your grandchild the difference between acceptable and unacceptable behavior. But getting your grandchild to behave the way you want is not as hard as you think.

Find strategies that work by clicking Continue below.


Learn more...

 


Source:  American Academy of Pediatrics

 

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The products and services listed on this page are presented as a service to you. Neither L-3 nor Marsh recommends any product or service; there is no guarantee that any listing on this page will be suitable for a particular purpose.

Learn How to Discipline Your Child

As a grandparent, it is your job to teach your grandchild the difference between acceptable and unacceptable behavior. But getting your grandchild to behave the way you want is not as hard as you think.

Find strategies that work by clicking Continue below.


Learn more...

 


Source:  American Academy of Pediatrics

 

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The products and services listed on this page are presented as a service to you. Neither L-3 nor Marsh recommends any product or service; there is no guarantee that any listing on this page will be suitable for a particular purpose.

Look into Child Tax Credits

Did you know that the IRS will give you money back just for having a child living in your home? Three tax credit programs give extra money to people who are raising children. That includes grandparents and great grandparents. If you qualify, you may be able to pay less to Uncle Sam each year.

Don't miss the chance to claim these credits!


Learn more...

 


Source:  AARP

 

Note
The products and services listed on this page are presented as a service to you. Neither L-3 nor Marsh recommends any product or service; there is no guarantee that any listing on this page will be suitable for a particular purpose.

Look into Child Tax Credits

Did you know that the IRS will give you money back just for having a child living in your home? Three tax credit programs give extra money to people who are raising children. That includes grandparents and great grandparents. If you qualify, you may be able to pay less to Uncle Sam each year.

Don't miss the chance to claim these credits!


Learn more...

 


Source:  AARP

 

Note
The products and services listed on this page are presented as a service to you. Neither L-3 nor Marsh recommends any product or service; there is no guarantee that any listing on this page will be suitable for a particular purpose.

  


Congratulations! You’re a grandparent or soon to become one. Although this transition is less challenging than becoming a parent, it does have its challenges—and joys. The checklist below will help you make the most of your grand-parenting years.

 Adjust to your new role.

 Understand your grandchild.

 Childproof your home.

 Safety in the car.

 Help your grandchild stay healthy.

 Provide childcare.

 Help raise your grandchild.

 Provide discipline.

 Give financial gifts.

 Give non-financial gifts.

 Leave a legacy.

 Help with college savings.


 
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